tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post7588363178791671668..comments2023-11-05T09:12:48.637+00:00Comments on Cheshire Wife: A Family at Warcheshire wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13944869219641386387noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-46497692476310861932010-08-19T03:17:53.214+01:002010-08-19T03:17:53.214+01:00Before finding out about links of london uk watche...Before finding out about <a href="http://www.uk-linksoflondon.com/" rel="nofollow"><strong>links of london uk</strong></a> watches you should be familiar with some of the terminology. <a href="http://www.uk-linksoflondon.com/" rel="nofollow"><strong>cheap links of london</strong></a> The word horology has two meanings; it is the study or science of measuring time <a href="http://www.uk-linksoflondon.com/" rel="nofollow"><strong>links london jewellery</strong></a> or the art of making clocks, watches, and devices for telling <a href="http://www.uk-linksoflondon.com/" rel="nofollow"><strong>links of london sale</strong></a> time.Since the first appearance of man on the earth an effort has <a href="http://www.uk-linksoflondon.com/" rel="nofollow"><strong>links of london silver</strong></a> been made to determine time.The tracking of the sun's movement across <a href="http://www.uk-linksoflondon.com/" rel="nofollow"><strong>discount links of london</strong></a> the sky, candles that were marked at intervals.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-82388464977579598722010-08-15T22:11:08.676+01:002010-08-15T22:11:08.676+01:00My heart goes out to you ... wish families could w...My heart goes out to you ... wish families could work together. Seems like it so seldom happens.Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09659514354403424628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-44607906566776985322010-03-26T05:52:12.707+00:002010-03-26T05:52:12.707+00:00I have to say, there must be one in every family. ...I have to say, there must be one in every family. You've got to get this resolved.<br /><br />He's being petty and underhanded. He's not thinking of your Mother.... No, this isn't right at all.<br /><br />I wish I could help you.Joeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09990251768655459821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-91903789365213714132010-03-23T21:20:36.104+00:002010-03-23T21:20:36.104+00:00WM - no need to apologise for smelling a rat!
Thu...WM - no need to apologise for smelling a rat!<br /><br />Thud - I hope that your siblings continue to be great. I think that you may need the help of your sisters further down the line.<br /><br />LLM - I hope that you had a good holiday. Nice to hear from you.cheshire wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13944869219641386387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-30809203730256959712010-03-23T18:01:18.608+00:002010-03-23T18:01:18.608+00:00Catching up with my blogging friends now we are ho...Catching up with my blogging friends now we are home, sorry to hear you are having such a ghastly time.LindyLouMachttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12282788551449445133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-73236097223147437772010-03-21T22:00:39.773+00:002010-03-21T22:00:39.773+00:00Sorry about your problem as aged parents are exhau...Sorry about your problem as aged parents are exhausting in themselves. I am moving my mother into a cottage I am restoring and my sisters give me free run on all decisions...I have great siblings.Thudhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18320037763190473684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-3729828311972296872010-03-21T21:58:09.541+00:002010-03-21T21:58:09.541+00:00re: your comment on my blog...I think you may be v...re: your comment on my blog...I think you may be very right! I do so hope your situation can be corrected soon...you've been in my thoughts a lot this week!!! Love you, Janine XOSniffles and Smileshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10073156486641622612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-91385500830311517022010-03-21T17:43:16.254+00:002010-03-21T17:43:16.254+00:00Akelamalu's suggestion seems a good one. If h...Akelamalu's suggestion seems a good one. If he has the money, he buys her stuff. You shouldn't have to pay out of your own money and claim it back when you mother has her own money that could go straight to you.<br /><br />I hope that there is more amicable way to solve this problem, but if I were you I'd try to get to the bottom of why he doesn't want you to handle the money. Why does he have power of attorney if you are the one dealing with things? <br /><br />I'm sorry to say, I smell a rat here. When people aren't open and honest about money, they are usually doing something they shouldn't.<br /><br />If all else fails, you'l get your reward in heaven.Working Mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16243697047355131343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-70392859223503544212010-03-20T19:10:17.710+00:002010-03-20T19:10:17.710+00:00How absolutely dreadful!
Is there any way you can...How absolutely dreadful!<br /><br />Is there any way you can get the money paid to you instead of your brother.Rob-bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00171692478879522588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-62806761511179086072010-03-19T19:23:57.230+00:002010-03-19T19:23:57.230+00:00I'm so sorry. What is it with families? Many o...I'm so sorry. What is it with families? Many of us share these issues, so you are not alone. Take good care.Midlife Roadtripperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06700277803842883251noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-53646974438184752522010-03-19T16:58:48.336+00:002010-03-19T16:58:48.336+00:00What a terribly mean minded thing for your brother...What a terribly mean minded thing for your brother to do, CW. You have to take care of your mother's needs and your brother has control of the money. I would challenge him about it and if you do I really hope you gain back control. AStrawberry Jam Annehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13695110960213262472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-28119491605777816132010-03-19T16:15:17.194+00:002010-03-19T16:15:17.194+00:00How awful. I do hope you can sort this out.
Perhap...How awful. I do hope you can sort this out.<br />Perhaps he could pay you a regular allowance for her needs, then settle up later if he is determined to be such a control freak.Susie Verekerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15231577537523515291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-62106833297948235762010-03-19T02:25:56.933+00:002010-03-19T02:25:56.933+00:00Hope this is sorted soon CW - apart from the perso...Hope this is sorted soon CW - apart from the personal worry of your Mums care and mental state there's the worry of having to fund your Mum's needs and then hope you'll be refunded.<br />Just not on at all - theres aways one B.....d in every family<br />CathyCathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15065980166009732571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-15089943525729963382010-03-18T11:59:53.314+00:002010-03-18T11:59:53.314+00:00So sorry you are having to deal with financial wor...So sorry you are having to deal with financial worries as well as looking after your mother. Sometimes the world seems horribly imbalanced. I hope you and your brother can resolve it satisfactorily for both sides.Catharine Withenayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06936767499911371984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-40863111877757621022010-03-18T09:09:48.469+00:002010-03-18T09:09:48.469+00:00Umm, leopard, spots definitely don't change - ...Umm, leopard, spots definitely don't change - never will.<br />I have not had any contact with my pig headed arrogant brother since our father died and it's great!<br />if i were you, i would insist he is made responsible for all your mother's needs but of course you must put her welfare first.<br />Appease your conscience by doing what you know is right and let your brother wallow in his small mindedness and greed.<br />Is he a happy bunny? I doubt it!<br />JJJJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03424300403665046556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-42580008121559885622010-03-17T22:51:12.413+00:002010-03-17T22:51:12.413+00:00FF - I knew that you wouldn't be stuck for wor...FF - I knew that you wouldn't be stuck for words.cheshire wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13944869219641386387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-29150477465834014902010-03-17T10:55:50.675+00:002010-03-17T10:55:50.675+00:00Words fail me, CW. They really do.Oh, ok then...
...Words fail me, CW. They really do.Oh, ok then...<br /><br />You have done so much for your mum and he has done sweet F.A. I guess with his behaviour now and also in the past, he is the sort of person who is not even aware that what he is doing is just wrong. He clearly does not understand the slightest thing about the right way to behave. You have all my sympathies. <br /><br />In the years to come - if financial irregularities are involved - there are measures that you will be able to follow. The onus will on him to prove that he took his Power of Attorney affairs seriously and not just to siphon off money for his own ends.<br /><br />In the meantime you are doing all you can to care for her in a loving daughterly way and he is just using the whole thing as a cash cow exercise. What a scumbag he is.French Fancy...https://www.blogger.com/profile/04941577892849157015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-52652102348139607472010-03-17T10:51:09.861+00:002010-03-17T10:51:09.861+00:00CW, this is awful. I'm so angry for you. I rea...CW, this is awful. I'm so angry for you. I read the other posts about your brother - he sounds "delightful" - not!CGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13773161375865716360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-28845381652984637292010-03-17T08:41:36.796+00:002010-03-17T08:41:36.796+00:00S and S - I have tried reasoning with him. All I g...S and S - I have tried reasoning with him. All I get is arrogance and rudeness.cheshire wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13944869219641386387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-63472278018835558632010-03-16T21:19:05.969+00:002010-03-16T21:19:05.969+00:00Oh, I'm so, so sorry...I think you need to spe...Oh, I'm so, so sorry...I think you need to speak to him about this, or do something...this should NOT be!!!! Will pray for you!!! love you, Janine XOSniffles and Smileshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10073156486641622612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-50264577353973895442010-03-16T19:13:14.878+00:002010-03-16T19:13:14.878+00:00Akelamalu - there is no need to apologise for what...Akelamalu - there is no need to apologise for what you think of my brother. I have a four letter word to describe him.cheshire wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13944869219641386387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-7534322162203541492010-03-16T18:37:45.043+00:002010-03-16T18:37:45.043+00:00I suggest you tell your brother straight that you ...I suggest you tell your brother straight that you are not prepared to do this. If he wants control of the money then tell him you will give him a weekly list of your mother's needs and you expect him to make sure that she gets them. See how he likes that.<br /><br />I know it's your brother but what a cad he is, sorry. xAkelamaluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11234268568845148285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-63412839584606391652010-03-16T13:14:52.946+00:002010-03-16T13:14:52.946+00:00There's almost nothing one can say with these ...There's almost nothing one can say with these situations. I have seen in my husband's family how money turned siblings against on another and when the responsibility of a sick parent is forced onto only one child. It's horrible and endlessly frustrating. My mother-in-law is one of seven children and she alone cared for their mother in the painful, difficult final years of her life. The rest of the siblings wouldn't even chip in for the funeral and rarely saw her. Then, once she had died, they all came out like cockroaches scavenging for the very little belongings she left behind. <br /><br />We just have to remember that the sick, sad world inside people's heads that make them behave that way is their curse and you will be rewarded in the long term for your devotion.<br /><br />Will keep thinking of you and crossing my fingers for a turn around.LHAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09762107075253162805noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-70517419581194228512010-03-16T11:36:44.561+00:002010-03-16T11:36:44.561+00:00This is so distressing for you. Your brother shoul...This is so distressing for you. Your brother should be ashamed of himself. He obviously doesn't care much for his mother or you. <br />Family disputes are the worst kind, I feel so sorry for you.Valeriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12099030819314552958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3319585156044214967.post-81561743023410234952010-03-16T11:30:12.203+00:002010-03-16T11:30:12.203+00:00Very disheartening post to read CW and to think th...Very disheartening post to read CW and to think that it is your brother who is behind this. I'm amazed he can sleep at night. Karma comes to my mind. I truly hope you can sort this out CW♥Manchester Lass, Now and Thenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04946068658998389838noreply@blogger.com